We believe that sex, ideally, should be a positive experience, that it should be enjoyable and fulfilling in some way. No one should ever walk away from a sexual experience feeling regretful, ashamed, guilty, hurt, or dissatisfied — but the reality of sex (like reality in general) is unsatisfactory, and in our pursuit of the ideal sexual experience it is important to consider, not just sex, but everything surrounding the subject, and how these various aspects affect our relationship with sexuality.
